Dating a older teen
House rule since they were babies; You may not date until you are at least sixteen years old.At that time, we will revisit the issue and a decision will be made based upon your level of maturity, and responsibility.There is plenty of time for girls to concentrate on romantic partnerships after they finish their educations and get started on achieving vocational goals, which will help them achieve a secure future far better than an older boy friend.
I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 13 years older than me, but even so the emotional age and level of maturity between us is much more similar that between a 14 year older and an 18 year old. I think I was dating a boy who was 15 and though we may have kissed occasionally (and rather chastely) we weren't really much more than friends.
She can end up being perfectly happy and love this person for the rest of her life or it can push her to into acting older then she really is.
Every child is different when it comes to making these choices and some 14 year olds are older then others in the way of mentality, but like I said....
By dating someone who is remarkably older than you, you get to learn about things that will come later in life. Although girls tend to reach physical and emotional maturity milestones at an earlier age than boys, I don't think its a good idea for a 14 year old girl to be dating a guy over the age of 18 for several reasons.
The importance of saving, gaining friends, doing everything you can at the age you are now (if you're an introvert like me), etc. If I went to a university, I would be at parties with people doing drugs and having sex. Virtually every male on earth is, or at the very least can become highly motivated to achieve sexual conquests, despite the age of the person he is sexually attracted to.